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2020.10.24 06:04 nicesuuu55 23 [M4F] Coffee Date drive thru?

Hi there!! Looking for someone to have a coffee date today, this afternoon. Roadtrip and Drive thru tayo sa Starbucks hahaha.
About me: 23, from one of the top universities (if that matters), 5'7", normal bmi and build, young professional on wfh setup, former starbucks barista, loves coffee, travelling, and adventures
Preferably someone who is around my age, cute, slim or normal bmi, maraming kwento, kung nahihiya ka mag kwento, pwede naman ako mag kwento hahahaha
Message me if you're interested :)) we can exchange photos if you want :))
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2020.10.24 06:00 pog99 "Africa never invented anything and that's okay"- Debunking stupid quora comment.

The topic today refers to this comment. The aforementioned commenter is a self described "National Socialist", who I came upon while doing research for another article about Ryan Faulk. He responded to a criticism of his answer, claiming that Africans never achieved anything. In response, he was replied with this article. It mentioned Van Sertima and plays out the Haya "Steel-making" trope, but overall includes some other fascinating information.
It was followed up by the aforementioned spiel which tries to make a mixed point about cultural relativism.
"Every time I see one of these articles I’m struck by the lack of depth."
I can agree, they tend to sell African history short and seem to lack familiarity with the discipline.
" 'Africans' are not simply people who lived in Africa at some point in time.
The attempt is to paint accomplishments of culture over thousands of cultures which did not produce those accomplishments."
This will be seen as the bullshit as it is.
"Egypt is not 'Africa'. Africa, in this context, is the thousands of tribal level groups that lived, almost exclusively, south of the Sahara desert, in what is today deemed 'Sub-Saharan Africa'.
The Egyptian civilization is distinct from all of Africa, and rose from a genetically distinct people. They had no more to do with the tribes of the southern regions than they had to do with the tribes of Northern Europe."
I won't go into the details of Egyptian genetics, but Egyptians are Africans. Though Afroasiatic, their language is a relative isolate and at best is linked closer to local African branches rather than Asian ones. Likewise "Southern groups" such as Nubians, are basically intermediate between Egyptians and Other regional SSA groups.
To claim Egypt isn't "African" is a historically prevalent and futile attempt. Surprisingly, allusions to "Non African cultures" like Egyptians were used in the Hamitic Hypothesis to explain Sub Saharan cultures like the Yoruba.
"Civilized Egypt is no more a heritage of Kalahari Bush People than civilized China. Tribal Africans neither created, nor adopted the civilization of Egypt. Whether you’re talking about building, farming, mathematics, domestication of animals, or whatever; there is no evidence that these developments came from “Africa”, just as there is no evidence that “Africa” even adopted them.
None of these things “fit” in 'African cultures'."
So I only glossed this part at first, and seeing the highlighted parts makes my blood boil with how much arrogance shows by being simply wrong.
The adoption of Pastoralism in Africa is just as old as, if not older, as it's adoption in Europe.
I'm not sure exactly what "building" is supposed to refer to, but see these historum threads of Sub Saharan architecture and this basic article on traditional Yoruba architecture.
Domesticated crops were indeed independent to the Sahel of West Africa. This can be seen seen by the general lack of overlap of association with Northern African diffused crops (like Wheat, barley, etc.), archaeology, and genetics of crops such as Pearl Millet, a very important crop for arid populations and one of the most important cereals on earth.
The evidence applies to same to other crops.
The basin of the Niger River was presumably a hotspot of cultivation, as several archaeological sites with remains of cultivated crops are located in this region (2528). Among the five crops of African origin that are most produced in Africa today (yam, African rice, sorghum, pearl millet, and cowpea; www.fao.org/faostat), four presumably originated in a restricted area: African yam expanded from the Niger River basin (present study), African rice was domesticated in the region of the Inner Niger Delta in Mali (6), pearl millet in northern Mali and Mauritania (5), while cowpea is posited to have originated in northern Ghana (29). Together, these results greatly refine our understanding of West African crops domestication history. They help identify a major cradle of domestication in West Africa, geographically localized around the Niger River (Fig. 4), comparable to the Fertile Crescent in the Near East.
Again related to the unique "Neolithic Package" of West Africa, ceramics are shown to be Earliest in the Southern most part of the Sahara across the continent, separate from the context of the Near eastern derived North African Neolithic culture. This is exemplified by Ounjougou of Mali, and possibly even Bosumpra of Ghana at even earlier dates and even further south.
If any diffusion occurred, it seems to have been South to North, and physical anthropology suggests
that Sub-saharan populations were responsbile for these cultures.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/262288955_Lithic_industry_as_an_Indicator_of_Ceramic_Diffusion_in_the_Early_Neolithic_of_West_Africa_a_Case_Study_at_Ounjougou_Mali
https://www.google.com/books/edition/CNRS_Research/9ewnAQAAIAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=dhar+tichitt+negroid&pg=PT7&printsec=frontcover

Dhar Tichitt, 2000-1000 B.C, demonstrates the use of all of these. See here on the use of Mathematics. (bear with me because for some reason I can't embed the link into the text.)
https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/82352865.pdf
"None of the fascinating structures that exist in Sub-Saharan Africa are of a type to suggest development by indigenous cultures. The people that built these structures did not develop the techniques of building such things locally, and the cultures which either drove them out or replaced them never adopted those techniques."
I have no idea precisely what he is referring to, but I am assuming he means Zimbabwe which doesn't support that archaeology at all.
https://www.reddit.com/badhistory/comments/77ua4f/a_look_at_some_african_badhistory_on_twitter_part/
Otherwise, the large Earthworks and Potsherd pavements of Western Africa towards the Savanna/Forest transition like in Yorubaland were certainly indigenous.
"Africa never developed anything which was adopted by western culture, and seldom, even following invasion by Europeans, adopted anything from Europe."
Excepted, you know, Cubism, Afro-Music of the New World, and arguably Rice cultivation. As stated before, Pearl Millet and Sorghum are both Sub-Saharan crops that were adopted and very important to the diet of Southern Asian countries.
https://www.jstor.org/stable/23302767?seq=1#metadata_info_tab_contents
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10437-018-9314-2
"It is an illogical leap of faith to suppose that Europeans adopted “African science”, yet to suppose that Africans did not."
Again, refers to nothing in particular from the article, but the above examples
"I believe all such attempts to rewrite history in an attempt to base the beginning of civilization in “Africa” is the result of a perverse bigotry that supposes there to be something “wrong” with “uncivilized peoples”.
There is nothing “wrong” with the indigenous peoples of Africa not “achieving civilization”, developing western style philosophies, or anything else. It is as though one should imagine trout to be “superior” to carp, and try to paint the “superior” characteristics of the trout onto the carp out of a sense of misguided sympathy for the poor “inferior” carp.
Anything, whether a culture, or a tool is only superior or inferior in context to a purpose.
If one is to suppose that what we think of as Western Civilization is the objectively correct outcome of a culture, then we’re going to find ourselves concluding that the cultures of Africa are “inferior” in that context.
If, however, we imagine that the objectively correct outcome is people who survive in Africa, African cultures have done a splendid job of producing such peoples. Those cultures have successfully done so for countless thousands of years.
“Progress” may be desirable from our own point of view. That doesn’t mean it should have happened in Africa. There is no need to project our desires into a distant, primitive past, onto peoples who’s lives were vastly different from our own."
In regards to actual studies on explaining the different rate of development in Africa compared to other places, see the following pieces and authors. Isolating information systems during the Iron Age limited information and Environmental constrainsts of mobility and production systems in the Sahara limited farming
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/276597030_Invention_and_Innovation_in_African_Iron-smelting_Technologies
https://www.jstor.org/stable
https://www.google.com/books/edition/Food_fuel_and_fields/lUOWDwAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=late+stone+age+west+Africa+diet&pg=PA77&printsec=frontcover/25801187?seq=1
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/298801110_A_global_perspective_on_the_pyrotechnologies_of_Sub-Saharan_Africa
https://www.academia.edu/3196575/Mobility_Climate_Change_and_Cultural_Development_A_Revised_View_from_the_Lower_Tilemsi_Valley_Northeastern_Mali
https://books.google.com/books/about/Africa_s_Development_in_Historical_Persp.html?id=Kv4OBAAAQBAJ
See this rebuttal to typical and specific claims
https://www.jstor.org/stable/40023596?seq=1
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2020.10.24 00:41 Truelove2099 New SB, meeting POT. Is this normal?

Hi everyone. I am quite new to the sugarbowl. I never really had a SR. Just some spoiling boyfriends.
This all happened in a 3 week timeline. I had a m&g with this sd. It went really well we had a nice dinner. We clicked and could talk for hours. He told me he didn’t look at the time once and had a really great time. Allowance or ppm didn’t came up. He just had a very short moment of telling me that he wasn’t feeling the girls on SA who were asking for pay for pics or a m&g. I didn’t talk about money at all. It was more of a natural vanilla dating feeling as I was feeling attracted to him.
The second date came up, and because of corona rules we couldn’t go out for dinner. He invited me over. He always picked me up and brings me home again - he lives 1,5 hour drive away so to see me he just drives 6 hours - and we ordered some food and just cuddled on his couch. He’s definitely well off, he drives a really nice car and lives in a penthouse in the capital. Allowance or anything else like that didn’t came up. Because it just feels natural. We are both not really texters. He texts me everyday but we don’t really have conversations on there. (I know what ur thinking, but he’s divorced)
Okay so... 3th date came up. Still no talk about allowance. We did a stroll around the city and he brought me to a very expensive designer shoe store. He got me some very nice and fancy boots. After that (everything else was closed) we went back to his place and ordered some food (everywhere else is closed) we were intimate and honestly we had a lot of fun. We definitely have the same interests in that aspect as well. It just feels very good to be with him he’s very funny. But still no talk about allowance whatsoever.
However i feel kind of awkward talking about this. I dont know why. And i just don’t know how to bring it up. So i was wondering what would you do? This all feels very vanilla for me. I would never date this man if we met on the streets. He’s 17 years older than me but not very bad looking. I am actually very attracted to him which is weird to me. Should I just keep meeting him for some shopping once in a while or is it not worth it. I can’t find to seem men who are real sugardaddy don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
And i don’t sleep around that much either. I am 23 and have had 3 bedpartners all of my life including this man lol. So it was weird for me to be feeling that way. Help lol
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2020.10.23 23:04 silenabriar Where Did I Go Wrong?

I've been a SB for a good 2 years now and I feel like I've gained a pretty good ability on reading people, but I may have totally misread this one. Me and this POT hit it off, moving from SA to text and eventually to the M&G with a lot of chemistry in about a week and a half. At the M&G we both agreed to start with PPM as we were just getting to know each other and he didn't want to be scammed for a whole month and then never see me again, which I totally understand and I actually see as a common and safer practice. In my eyes if a SD is offering an allowance right off the bat, that is usually a big red flag for it being a scam.
A few days after the M&G we had our first date, he paid me, and we had our intimate date. I woke up the next morning and he was gone.... and he hasn't texted me back in over two weeks. At this point I am pretty much accepting the fact that I got pumped and dumped and this was a one time thing to get himself off at a cheaper price than hiring an escort. I've always been really good about reading these scenarios, and we even went in depth through our M&G talking about our lives and building a really good chemistry before going through what we both expected and desired from the potential SR.
I got my money, but I feel really stupid about being played. Are there any red flags I didn't see or things I should consider doing differently next time? I'm feeling a little dirty and exhausted from the sugar life right now. You always expect the dirty john's to be rude and crass, and this just feels a million times more humiliating considering he played the kind and genuine role so well :)
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2020.10.23 22:39 Kapitan_TsuTang Bad boyfriend

My friends and ex-gf friends calls me the bad boyfriend...
bad kasi magaling lang sa simula. cold and distant afterwards.
bad kasi mabilis magalit at napapamura ng matindi pag galit na galit .
bad kasi pag nag aaway na kami ng ex ko, instead na makipagusap ay nagwawalk out ako.
bad kasi sex lang daw habol ko.

hindi nila alam.
na i was cold, kasi nasasaktan ako sa tuwing sinasabi niya "you dont deserve me, sa iba ka na lang".
dumistansya ako sa ex ko kasi, i found out na sinasabi niya sa mga tao "napipilitan lang naman ako sa kanya kasi makulit siya".
mabilis ako magalit, kasi nahuli ko siyang may flirtatious conversation sa 2 ex niya.
napapamura ako sa galit kasi everytime cinoconfront ko siya about her exes. sasabihin niya. "wala na, nakablock na, binura ko na. ikaw na lang.ikaw lang"
nagagalit din ako, kasi may ibang lalaki na nagsasabi na may something daw sila. na yung mga ginawagawa namin as a couple(dates, hangouts, etc) ay ginagawa nila.
nagwawalk out ako everytime may away kami. kasi nadadama ko na sasabog ako. na yung bigat na dinadala ng pagdududa ko at insecurities ko gusto ng sumabog kaya aalis na lang ako para makapagpigil.
gusto ko laging makipag sex sa kanya kasi dun ko lang nadadama na mahal niya ako. na kailangan niya ako. na sa akin lang attention niya.

at pinaka malala sa lahat ng yan. kahit nung iniwan na niya ako at may bago na siya. hinabol ko parin siya kasi mahal ko siya.
bad na nga. tanga pa.
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2020.10.23 18:29 feeling_unsteady Haven’t had any luck in a while

I dipped into the sugar pool the minute I turned 18. I always had great luck with finding good SDs who really took care of me and wanted to pamper me. Now, I feel like all I can find are low PPMs that just want me to come over for a bit. Im 23 now and I’m in the Miami area. I know it’s super saturated here, but a couple hundred for occasional meetings just sounds pretty not worth it to me. I want to find one great SD who wants to help with my student loans, go to nice restaurants, shopping occasionally, and just overall have fun & enjoy one another’s company while helping one another.
I’ve had a few scary experiences in the past off SA. I’ve been hurt, violated, etc in the past. I just want to ensure that doesn’t happen again and to find someone who truly values me. I’m much more careful now, but that also means many less dates. I
So I think I’m going to revamp my profile. New username, new bio, etc. Any advice at all for finding someone who is on the same page as me? I always thought it may be easier to find someone in person, but never knew how to go about that and how to explain the sugar life to someone.
I’m young, educated, still in college, take great care of myself, and just don’t get what I’m doing wrong.
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2020.10.23 12:55 Octave_Ergebel Le livre sans visage, ou pourquoi j'ai quitté les réseaux sociaux, par Pacôme Thiellement (attention long texte)

Ça ressemble à une rupture amoureuse, en fait. C’est une décision aussi difficile qu’une séparation et sa seule qualité serait d’être apaisée et irrévocable. Je quitte les réseaux sociaux. Ce n’est pas un au-revoir mais un adieu. Une opération comme celle-là ne peut se faire qu’une fois dans sa vie, alors il faut bien choisir son moment, et encore plus les mots pour le faire. Ça fait douze ans que je passe difficilement une semaine sans poster sur Facebook, et encore plus difficilement une demi-journée sans lire ce que les autres ont posté. Parfois je poste plusieurs fois le même jour. J’ai fait des pauses d’un mois tous les ans, et un peu plus d’un mois cette année. Souvent j’ai hésité à partir, mais je n’y croyais pas vraiment. J’étais comme ces personnes qui menacent sans arrêt de se suicider, ou comme le narrateur de la chanson de « By the Time I Get to Phoenix » dont l’amoureuse lit le message de rupture accroché sur la porte mais qui ne doute pas que celui qui l’a rédigé reviendra encore : il a dit qu’il la quitterait si souvent déjà. Facebook je t’aime mais je dois m’en aller.
Je suis sur Facebook depuis douze ans. Douze ans : c’est plus long que ma plus longue relation amoureuse. Je me suis longtemps méfié de Facebook, puis je m’y suis inscrit. J’ai posté timidement, puis je m’y suis lâché. J’ai travaillé avec Facebook comme support. J’ai écrit avec Facebook comme médium. J’ai pensé avec Facebook comme sujet. Je l’ai adoré, je l’ai détesté, j’en ai fait mon journal intime et mon bureau des hypothèses, et maintenant je suis à un moment de ma vie où je dois impérativement passer à autre chose : c’est une question de survie de l’âme. Mais si je m’en vais, ça doit être pour de bon. Ce n’est pas pour garder twitter ou instagram, ou même messenger, et ce n’est pas pour y avoir des émissaires, des informateurs ou des comptes fantômes, comme tant de faux absents. Ce n’est pas pour faire semblant. Je dois partir cette fois, mais partir vraiment, sans me retourner. La facebookerie est pleine de fantômes, d’espions, de taupes, de demi-êtres. Surtout, elle est pleine de morts : les comptes des disparus continuent à apparaître, et leurs commentaires reviennent lorsqu’elle produit ses fameux « souvenirs » : « Pacôme, il y a cinq ans, vous avez publié ceci ! » Oh, well. Les morts continuent à fêter leurs anniversaires, et certains vivants, bloqués ou vous ayant bloqués, sont introuvables. Un seul like vous manque et tout est dépeuplé.
Ce carnaval m’a longtemps fasciné. J’y voyais un chef d’œuvre grotesque et cosmique, et même un texte sacré : une Bible participative, un Coran extraterrestre, du Brueghel psychique. Désormais cette tour de Babel a pour moi le même attrait qu’un complexe architectural des années 1970. J’étouffe dans la facebookerie. Je n’en peux plus de tant de haters sur tant de sujets qui s’évanouissent dès la semaine suivante, remplacé par un nouveau sujet et ses nouveaux hashtags. Je ne veux pas savoir ce que mes amis pensent de Polanski, de Despentes, de Poutine ou de Raoult. J’en ai ma claque de me fader le dernier débat sur la dernière sortie raciste ou misogyne d’un chroniqueur. Je peux plus voir le visage de Zemmour en peinture. Cette temporalité chaude, cette hyper-actualité a été la mienne, j’en suis conscient, mais elle ne l’est plus du tout. Désormais, les émotions collectives me laissent froid : je suppose que ça s’apparente au burn-out d’un employé de bureau qui a été zélé trop longtemps. Et je suis également conscient que l’opération de supprimer son compte est encore un épisode de sa mythologie. Quitter Facebook, c’est encore en faire partie.
Tant pis. Je n’y peux rien. Pour ce que je dois vivre et écrire maintenant, pour le travail que j’ai besoin de faire sur moi-même et sur les sujets qui m’importent, ça n’a plus de sens de continuer. Quelque chose doit craquer. Dans ma tête, ce texte ressemblerait aux confessions d’un drogué et à un adieu à une époque révolue. Dans la réalité, ça ressemblera surtout à une justification ou à une lettre d’excuses. Facebook, le problème ne vient pas de toi, il vient de moi. Facebook, je suis désolé, je t’aime toujours, mais comme un ami. Facebook, je t’aime mais je dois voir d’autres gens.
J’ai arrêté de lire la presse il y a plus de dix ans. Je n’ai jamais eu la télévision. Pendant toute cette décennie, les réseaux sociaux ont été ma revue de presse. Je l’ai trouvé passionnante dans son chaos, sa folie, son humour, ses sarcasmes. Mes amis Facebook étaient mille fois plus drôles que n’importe quel comique de France Inter. Maintenant elle me donne la nausée. Ses débats d’idées me laissent idiot. Ses enthousiasmes collectifs et ses campagnes de dénigrement organisés m’épuisent. Je me retrouve comme ces chrétiens cinglés qui brûlent les disques qu’ils avaient adorés. Sauf que je ne regrette rien de ces douze années : simplement les meilleures choses ont une fin, et c’est bien le problème avec les réseaux sociaux : ils ne s’arrêtent jamais.
Au fond, j’ai attendu la mort naturelle de Facebook comme on attend le messie ou la fin du monde. Je croyais que Mark Zuckerberg serait comme un peintre fou qui finirait par brûler son chef d’œuvre. J’aimais y être, mais comme dans une fête dont on sait qu’elle va se finir au petit matin, et dont tout le charme réside justement dans le fait qu’elle ne durera pas. Surtout, j’aimais l’idée que tout ceci ne soit qu’une répétition : quelque chose allait arriver, qui contiendrait le meilleur de ce que les réseaux sociaux nous avaient apporté, et qui s’apparenterait à une utopie vécue, une sorte de relation au monde devenue totalement magique, intuitive, immédiate, évidente. Un changement de monde, total et merveilleux : un Facebook mais à ciel ouvert, dans la vraie vie. Lorsque les révolutions « orange » ont commencé, j’y voyais le premier signe d’un changement mondial de manière de vivre et de faire de la politique. Puis ce furent Occupy Wall Street, les Indignés, Nuit Debout, #MeToo, Black Lives Matter, les Gilets Jaunes… Rien ne s’est passé pour le mieux. De tous ces mouvements d’ampleur incroyable, et dans lesquels les réseaux sociaux jouaient un rôle majeur, à la fois de vecteur d’informations et d’intensification des luttes, nous n’avons accouché que d’un renforcement de la violence policière et de la surveillance généralisée, et l’émergence de figures politiques encore plus bêtes et égotiques que les précédentes ; et surtout des obsessionnels de leurs images, des twittos fous. On avait des fonctionnaires, on a désormais des starlettes. C’est devenu lassant de commenter leurs derniers méfaits. Les dernières stupidités de Raphaël Enthoven ou de Joachim Son-Forget ne provoquent plus qu’un rire sans lendemain.
Certes, à travers les réseaux sociaux, on a pu voir émerger quelque chose comme une « conscience collective » de tout ce qui cloche dans le monde, mais ensuite le coût politique a été très cher, et les divisions ont été trop nombreuses, sur n’importe quel sujet souvent secondaire et inutilement clivant. Nous avons été des enfants qui combattaient dans un monde de robots surarmés, et les robots ont gagné. Maintenant nous vivons dans leur monde. Et puis il y a eu le covid et le confinement. Plus de deux mois de statuts sarcastiques et de vidéos-clubs, au milieu d’une pandémie de désespoir et d’engueulades sur les vertus de l'hydroxychloroquine. C’est là que j’ai vraiment commencé à craquer. S’il y avait une chose sur laquelle je ne me sentais strictement aucune légitimité, c’était de discuter de la politique sanitaire. Qu’est-ce que j’en savais ? Oui, je détestais le capitalisme, mais à part ça ? Et là, les réseaux sociaux sont apparus clairement comme ce qu’ils avaient toujours été : une consolation, une manière de se tenir chaud, une façon de se rassurer collectivement, mais aussi de s’engueuler pour rien, sur rien. L’expression d’un désir collectif d’avoir toujours raison, mais dans un monde qui va à sa perte.
Aujourd’hui, Facebook n’est plus pour moi que la caisse de résonnance de la confusion générale : mieux que la presse, en somme, mais pas beaucoup plus. J’ai commencé par faire l’absent. Puis j’ai hésité à partir. J’ai fait des allers-retours, j’ai pleurniché et poétisé, j’ai même créé une page professionnelle pour essayer de redonner une dynamique nouvelle à ma pratique qui serait basée sur une mise en avant systématique de ce qui me semblait valoir le coup : des chansons de Bowie et de Zappa, des émissions radio sur la poésie, des conférences de Stéphane du Mesnildot, des images de Amandine Urruty ou de Olivia Clavel, des rendez-vous cinéphiliques. Rien à faire : j’en avais ma claque. Et je sentais confusément que je n’étais pas le seul. Petit à petit, on s’était habitué à se faire malmener par le pouvoir et conforter par les amis des réseaux sociaux, mais, dans un monde où on doit sortir dans la rue avec un masque et où les politiques d’émancipation sont tous les jours plus sévèrement brimées, honnêtement, ça rime à quoi, un nouveau statut Facebook ? Autant faire des films et des livres. Autant dessiner et écouter de la musique. On se sent connecté aussi, mais à des puissances animales et divines, et pas à l’impuissance générale.
Mon attitude pue le privilège et l’ingratitude, j’en suis conscient. Comme je suis conscient de tout ce que Facebook m’a apporté. Facebook m’a donné une visibilité, un statut social, une place dans le monde culturel, et même, si l’on doit parler avec cynisme, un semblant de carrière. Entre 2003 et 2008, j’avais publié quatre livres dans l’indifférence presque totale de la presse et de mes camarades écrivains. Les tirages n’étaient pas énormes, et on avait du mal à les épuiser. C’est en 2009, quand Chloë des Lysses m’a tiré le portrait au moment de la sortie de « Cabala », que tout a changé pour ma petite gueule. Cyril de Graeve, qui dirigeait « Chronic’art », voyant ma nouvelle photo de profil a soudain écrit en commentaire : « Ça pourrait faire une bonne couv’ ». Les pouces bleus se sont multipliés comme les pains de l’Évangile. A cette époque, j’avais déjà difficilement une notule concernant mon dernier livre ; soudain, je me suis retrouvé en photo dans les kiosques à journaux. Et une semaine plus tard, j’ai reçu un coup de fil de l’équipe de « Ce soir (ou jamais !) ». Voilà, c’était parti : j’ai commencé à faire des émissions de télé ou de radio, des grands entretiens dans « Technikart » et même la quatrième de couverture du « Monde des Livres ». Pour la première fois de ma vie, on m’abordait dans la rue. C’est une histoire banale pour beaucoup, mais quand ça vous arrive après des années de publications et de projections underground, c’est très déstabilisant. Ça pourrait être enivrant, mais pour moi c’était surtout extrêmement bizarre.
Je ne vais pas non plus cracher dans la soupe parce que m’y suis plutôt très bien fait. J’en ai même tiré, je crois, le meilleur, pas seulement pour ma petite gueule (que j’ai quand même beaucoup mise en avant) mais en l’utilisant pour célébrer également tous ceux que j’estimais. Facebook m’a aidé à faire connaître mes dates de signatures de livres, mes « événements » et rencontres, mais j’ai aussi pu régulièrement parler de Hermine Karagheuz, de Delfeil de Ton, de Virginie di Ricci, de Bertrand Mandico, de Stéphane Legrand, de Chloé Delaume ou de Captain Cavern. Sans Facebook, il n’est pas sûr que les « Citadelles en Suspens » à la galerie Anne Barrault, « Satan Trismégiste » au Monte-en-l’air ou « La Bibliothèque de Babylone » galerie Corinne Bonnet aient été aussi fréquentés, vivants et réjouissants. Et je ne parle pas des apparitions en province. A côté de ça, les invasions de trolls et les petites polémiques ne représentent pas grand-chose. Ce n’est pas leur nuisance si minuscule qui me pousse à partir. En douze ans, je n’ai eu qu’une « shit storm » à proprement parler. C’était après ma réaction à la journée « Je suis Charlie » en 2015 : un post très énervé que j’ai rédigé pendant une nuit blanche et que j’ai mis en ligne le 12 janvier à l’aube. Là, j’ai dû gérer pas mal de réactions négatives, mais c’était bien normal, vu le contexte. Et j’ai aussi découvert quelque chose qui me sembla très surprenant : l’existence d’éditorialistes Facebook. Des personnes qui ont fait du réseau social une tribune comparable à celle qu’ils auraient eu si on leur avait confié une page dans la presse nationale. Des espèces de Christophe Barbier des réseaux : moins connus, mais pas moins écoutés ; moins bêtes, mais pas beaucoup plus honnêtes.
Après 2015, à part de rares fois (liées à Valls, à Macron ou à la répression policière des Gilets Jaunes), j’ai préféré m’abstenir d’intervenir à chaud dans le débat public. Ça me fatiguait, et surtout je craignais de devenir aussi laid que les gens que je détestais. Je n’avais aucune envie de jouer à l’intellectuel : le rôle de l’éditorialiste qui se tient le menton avec un regard sérieux n’a jamais fait partie de mes fantasmes. Entre la détestation de nombre de décisions – et aussi de personnes – du monde politique et celle de la posture de l’intellectuel, mon cœur balance trop. Je préfère aborder l’actualité indirectement, dans mes livres ou dans les films avec Thomas. Ça me semble plus juste et plus « magique ». Je n’ai aucune leçon à donner à personne, même pas aux salauds. J’ai juste envie de trouver les mots ou les actes qui les empêcheraient de nuire.
Mais surtout aujourd’hui, j’ai besoin d’autre chose. Je n’ai plus besoin de savoir ce qu’a posté tel ou tel, j’ai envie de les lire sur la durée. Et surtout je suis fatigué de cette injonction à réagir à tout et à n’importe quoi. Je ne veux plus savoir ce qu’untel « pense » d’un événement. S’il a quelque chose à en dire, je préfère lire le livre qu’il écrira sur ce sujet que son dernier statut énervé. Ça ne me dérange pas d’attendre un an pour connaître un point de vue. Ce qui me dérange, au contraire, c’est de savoir que celui-ci a été donné sans travailler un minimum sur le sujet. J’ai toujours détesté les chroniqueurs télé : cette engeance lamentable qui se pavane à longueur de plateaux, tous ces soiffards de l’opinion qui occupent leurs journées à pousser des gueulantes chez Pascal Praud ou chez Cyril Hanouna. Je trouve que, sur Facebook, même les meilleurs esprits finissent par leur ressembler. Je n’ai pas d’opinion sur Donald Trump. Ou si j’en ai une, elle n’est étayée par rien, elle ne vaut rien, juste une discussion entre amis. Un dîner entre amis dans une trattoria me suffira largement ; je n’ai pas besoin de faire ça en public.
Et puis, évidemment, il y a l’amour. Pendant douze ans, Facebook a été à l’origine de presque toutes mes histoires d’amour, tant merveilleuses que misérables. Presque toutes mes amours ont commencé par une discussion en MP, précédées généralement par des commentaires amusants sous un post, ou des cœurs sous des photos de profil. Si j’enlève également les soirées de présentations de livres en librairie, il ne me reste vraiment qu’une toute petite poignée de rencontres amoureuses qui ne soient pas nées d’un épisode professionnel ou d’une intervention intellectuelle, mais elles ont toutes pour point commun d’avoir été purement humaines, totalement sincères et totalement désintéressées. Le reste est ce qu’il est : une valse-hésitation de malentendus et de vertiges lourds de conséquences. Mais là non plus je ne me plains pas. Sans Facebook, j’aurais sans doute vécu ces douze dernières années comme un ascète. Cet argument est d’ailleurs probablement le dernier à me faire hésiter. Et si, en quittant Facebook, je manquais ma chance de rencontrer le grand amour ? Voire même : et si, en quittant Facebook, je ne baisais plus ? Mais j’ai déjà 45 ans, et je ne suis pas assez naïf pour croire que le grand amour que je n’ai pas trouvé sur Facebook en douze années pourrait encore pointer son nez la treizième. Les dés du cœur sont pipés. Je préfère me tromper autrement désormais. Me tromper mieux.
Pendant douze ans, Facebook m’a permis de découvrir beaucoup de choses. Il y avait toujours un ami qui m’informait d’un livre que je devais lire ou un film qu’il était urgent de voir. Et je ne compte pas les précisions qu’une discussion a pu m’apporter sur tel ou tel sujet. Mais ça a fini par se tasser. Ça a fini par devenir plus conventionnel, plus tiède. J’y suis pour beaucoup. J’ai préféré retourner dans mes vieux apocryphes d’occasion, mes grimoires poussiéreux et mes incunables pleins de mystère. A une époque, je testais tout sur Facebook : nouvelles idées, nouveaux textes, mais cette pratique a fait son temps et a rempli sa fonction. Ça fait plusieurs années que je n’annonce mes nouveaux livres sur Facebook qu’à la dernière minute, que je ne veux plus tellement « éventer » mes nouveaux travaux, que je préfère les laisser mijoter en secret, lentement, avec amour, avec crainte, en ne tenant au courant qu’un petit nombre d’amis qui sont également mes principaux interlocuteurs.
Je présente mes excuses à tous ceux que mon départ pourrait ennuyer ou attrister : en premier lieu, mes amis, complices, collaborateurs et éditeurs, qui savent forcément qu’un retrait des réseaux sociaux se solde par une popularité immédiatement diminuée et donc une médiatisation plus faible de nos prochains travaux ensemble. Beaucoup d’entre nous – écrivains, cinéastes, journalistes, artistes, musiciens – sommes ici, avant tout, pour qu’on ne nous oublie pas, il faut avoir le courage de l’admettre. Mais pour moi ça a cessé de valoir le coup. Je préfère consacrer mon temps et mon énergie à écrire et à faire des films qu’à les promouvoir, quitte à ce que ceux-ci soient moins lus et moins vus. La vie est courte, et ma priorité sera désormais ce qui était initialement le cœur de mon désir. Je m’excuse aussi pour ceux qui n’ont pas envie de lire un de mes livres mais qui étaient contents de voir passer un statut de temps en temps : ceux-ci, en faisant un très petit effort, pourront me retrouver sur mon blog, qui fonctionnera peu ou prou comme ma page Facebook. Mais en mieux : le stress de l’actualité en moins, le plaisir de travailler mes pages en plus. Je ne dépêcherai personne pour tenir une page « professionnelle » sur Facebook me concernant. Là encore, ce ne serait pas honnête. Et j’ai envie de simplicité. J’aurais désormais mon blog, et un mail, et toute personne voulant m’écrire pourra m’écrire un mail, et toute personne voulant me lire sur des formes courtes sans avoir à acheter un livre pourra me lire sur mon blog, et toute personne voulant connaître les dates de mes prochaines rencontres, ciné-clubs ou interventions, les trouvera sur le blog ou par ma mailing list. Et je n’aurais pas l’impression de faire encore partie de ce chaos intellectuel et affectif qu’est Facebook. J’aurais à gérer mon propre chaos intellectuel et affectif : mes labyrinthes, mes sphinx, mes amours-vertiges, mes poètes visionnaires, mes Sonnets de Shakespeare et mes Sans Roi : c’est déjà beaucoup.
Voilà. C’est tout. Je ne me retire pas, je déménage. Je ne fais pas mes adieux à la scène, je vais dans un autre théâtre. Je passe sur un blog : c’est plus petit, plus discret, mais vous verrez, on s’y sentira très bien et, pour ce que j’ai à y faire, c’est beaucoup plus adapté qu’un stand au milieu d’une foire d’empoigne. On pourra parler tout bas. On pourra s’embrasser discrètement. On fermera les portes et on dansera jusqu’au petit matin sans que déboulent des inconnus bourrés complètement cons et agressifs qui cherchent la baston. Depuis que j’ai pris cette décision, j’ai l’impression de commencer à vivre, à vivre enfin. Je ne trouve pas que la vie était mieux avant Facebook ; je pense qu’elle sera mieux après. On se retrouve de l’autre côté.
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2020.10.23 12:02 International-Way134 Help po!!!

Hi i need help. Meron ba here na my kilala sa guy na my name Agustin Jun Emon?He's in dating scene tinder, viber, reddit etc and seems to scamming girls. Not even sure if thats even his real name. He is using diff backgrounds like UST LAW prof, Pdea employee, call center atbp. Just in case maybe someone already encountered him here in reddit or any dating apps. Thanks for the help
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2020.10.23 08:13 giveitsomedeath [H] Global 1900+ day 1 account. Have all exclusive and missable cards to date. Selling to win my court case against my cheating wife for my kids

Hi everyone. Recently discovered my soon to be ex-wife was cheating on me with a few different fella's. Shes taken my kids from me and I'm facing abit of a court battle to get to see them.
Have decided to sell my account to fund this. Any questions or offers please DM me. No scammers please, this is literally so I can see my kids.
Game Version: Global
OS: Android
Start Date: Day 1
Stone Count: 12
Featured Cards: 62 LR ( with SSR and TUR dupes as extra). 24 F2P and 38 Summonable LR. All LRs to date.
Account Album
Story Progress: 100% Done
Format: Sell best offer via negotiation
Origin of Account: self made and loved
Modding History: never WT exclusives : All
More Infos:
Level: 797 Stamina: 279 Box space: 1530
Age: 1908+ Days
Stones: 12+
Zeni: 321.576.941
Baba Points: 144.969.3+
Memory Points: 123.161.5
Red Coins: 1582
Gold Coins: 762
Blue Coins: 97
Potenial Orbs Small: 50,000 each Type
24 LR f2p
38 Summon LR (every LR to date)
229 Elder Kais
71 Grand Kais
32 Kai (Dozing)

All available EZA done (uptill September)
Story done
Story Events (uptill September)
F2P Characters have 4 Dupes and SA 10
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2020.10.23 07:00 jzglenn23 SB without arrangement?

SB without arrangement?
I recently met an SB on SA; we texted and set a time to meet next week. I asked her if she'd ever been in an arrangement before and she said no, she usually just dates older men who spoiled her. I didn't press her anymore on this, and am wondering if anyone's run into this situation before. Given that we met on SA, I'm assuming there's a financial component to this, but other SBs and I have been clear & upfront about PPMs, allowances, etc. I don't want to offend her by calling it an "arrangement", but am not sure what to do if the M&G goes well and we transition to a first date that night. I normally think of "spoiling" as buying gifts, services, etc, but unclear if I should just give her an envelope since, again, don't want to offend her if she's looking for some kind of real relationship (which I'd be open to). Anyone else encountered this type of situation before? Any advice on how to navigate?
This is the profile with details removed, so you get an idea of the SB. Doesn't seem very inexperienced...
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2020.10.23 06:38 MAD_DOG86 Problems with RDR2 and R* games in general

I'm going to start by copying a comment by u/Enriador that was posted on a thread that got locked (talking about how shooting enemies in limbs does not cripple them or have any noticeable effect)
">It's strange that R* had it in 1 but not in 2
I just finished my first playthrough of RDR1 in years. The amount of stuff they cut or dumbed down makes for a hefty list. Seriously, look at that:
All of this probably, being cynical, to make Red Dead Online run better and/or have exclusive Online content (like bounty hunting) that you can't find in Story Mode."
I have to say, RDR2 did seem like a lot less fun than RDR1. And I have actually noticed this in GTA 4 and 5. In R*'s attempts to make their games more serious and realistic they've made them a lot less fun. u/Enriador already listed a lot of stuff that was changed from RDR1, such as the animal skinning and fast travel. I don't believe I need to go into detail about how tedious skinning was. First time I saw it I was blown away by how realistic it was, but by the 10th time I was already sick of it.
On the topic of regression in games, GTA:SA had so much more that was removed from the later games, such as weapon proficiency enabling dual wielding, learning new fighting styles, being able to get fat or skinny or muscular, increasing swimming ability, dating, gang fights over territory (admittedly fits better with the setting of SA than it would with the other games but it could have been retooled to fit the other games).
An unrelated problem i had with RDR2 was actually in how unrealistic an aspect was. I could never get the point of the bandana and disguise system. If NPS saw you commit a crime, and then later saw you wearing the same clothes, they would get suspicious, which sounds interesting in principle, but it was pointless and your disguise would get blown the second you were seen by a sheriff.
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2020.10.23 04:10 314636 Been on SA for 9 months and not found anyone substantial

I have been on SA for a while, I stay online, I view, favorite and message. I have posted that I am kink friendly. I have great pics but I keep my upper half of my face cropped until my pics are requested for security. I have invested a lot of time on this site and still haven't found any substantial short or long term SD. I have had dates and shopping trips but nothing much further.
I am attractive and tall, well spoken and educated. I don't know what I'm kissing or what I'm doing wrong as I see girls that are, as impressive or less impressive than me cashing out a lottt per month. I don't understand! 😭
Any advice how to get better or where else to look and try?
The other sites I tried some time ago, were so spammy and fake.
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2020.10.23 03:37 Chrysanthemums108 19 [F4M] Paranaque Looking For Fwbs

So story time before anything else! I dont really know how all of this will go down since im new here. Originally, naghahanap ako sa Omegle (yeah bad idea haha) pero i have my reasons. Isa, ayoko sa dating apps kasi I dont want anyone finding out im there, lalo na mga friends ko. Second, i want to be discreet and safe as possible rin. For me and everyone else too. Pangatlo, sobrang libog ko na dahil sa pandemic HAHAAH. Di naman lagi pero may times na super. Anyways, while on omegle nalaman ko yung page na ito so ill try it out. kaso before anything else, baka deal breaker ito to some. Ano lang WELL... Im taken. Pero hear me out, it’s not that hindi ko siya mahal or anything, or toxic siya kaya ako nandito. Sa Totoo lang, compared to my previous exes, he’s been the best bf so far. As in he’s Loyal, Funny, Trustworthy, Handsome and Nice! I really do love super. Sorry sa flex, pero ayun. Its just that i may have a BIG KINK towards netorare or NTR. (If you can, pls search what it means hehe)
Sooo ayunnn.. naghahahanap ako ng Fwbs dito. Sana makahanap talaga ako HAHAHAH. Pero let get to know each other first okay! I want a solid friendship before the benifits begin. It doesnt mean we cant do anything explicit, pwede naman haha, get me in the mood and be friendly. Will we meet in person eventually? Oo naman HAHAH. Matagal lang bago yun huhu.
So please feel free to DM!! ill kwento more and share more about me doon nalang chz.
So when you DM me, please drop the following in your message: Age, Sex, Location, Interests, Hobbies, Height, Body Size, Dick Size, Body Count, Kinks or Fetishes and Sex history (I wanna know if your safe hehe)
Sorry if its so specific uwu, I’m not judgmental naman dont worry hahaha.
If you can also, please drop a message too that can cheer me up today, online classes are hard and the situation in the Philippines is getting worse huhuhuhu. Be respectful rin too!!! GUSTO KO NA MATAPOS COVID HUHUHU
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2020.10.23 03:20 glittergal93 OA & selfish ko ba?! Hahaha.

Hi, aga ko nagising. Hahaha. So, I'll make kuwento na lang. Also this is my first time to share. Hehe.
So, uhm. I have a boyfriend, he's 6 years older than me. He's 33 and I'm 27. I met him sa dating app and mag mag one year na kami this November.
Of course we had some issues and fights. Maybe dahil na din sa age gap namin. Pero ang pinaka nag bibigay sakin ng doubt or makes me disappointed is
  1. Kapag umaalis/may gagawin siya sometimes hindi siya nag sasabi. Hindi naman niya need akong i-message ang gusto ko lang malaman is nasaan siya and kung safe siya.
Sometimes I don't know kung nag papalusot na lang siya like nawalan ng internet/signal. I told him naman yung issue ko sa ganito and also tinanong ko siya kung may side chick siya, sabi niya wala. Edi, wala. Hahaha.
  1. Naka off yung "Last Seen" niya sa WhatsApp. Hindi ko na inopen up ito sakanya.
  2. I told him na sana makapunta siya sa house to meet my parents. Ang sabi niya lang "Soon" I get it naman na may pandemic pero napapa "Sana All" na lang ako kapag yung mga kakilala ko nakaka visit or alis with their lovers. Hehe.
Part of me wants to see him pero part of me okay lang kahit hindi muna kasi constant naman usap namin and since I do field work, gusto ko din siyang ma-protect from me. Kasi you'll never know baka machambahan ako ng veeerus.
Sometimes I feel na ang OA ko ba ang selfish ko ba? Hahaha. 😣😔
Hindi ko alam kung paano tatapusin eh, so.. Stay safe and healthy. Love lots! 💕
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2020.10.22 22:31 xyGvot [H] Marvel's Avengers, Forager, Catherine Classic, The Occupation, Yooka-Laylee and the Impossible Lair, Strange Brigade, Generation Zero, Golf With Your Friends, Hello Neighbor, Ancestors Legacy, The Messenger, Overload, others [W] Paypal, Steam Wallet, TF2 Keys, Wishlist

IGS Rep 6SteamTrades profileSGS Flair 7
150+ confirmed trades on reddit, 250+ on Steamtrades
Wishlist
All NA/ROW games (unless otherwise noted)
NO LONGER PROVIDING GIFT LINKS
Paypal only (EU: use F&F), fees through Goods/Item and Service transfer (if you're outside EU).
If a game doesn't have a price next to it, means I'm not looking to sell but open to offers/trade.

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cheers!
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2020.10.22 22:31 xyGvot [H] Marvel's Avengers, Forager, Catherine Classic, The Occupation, Yooka-Laylee and the Impossible Lair, Strange Brigade, Generation Zero, Golf With Your Friends, Hello Neighbor, Ancestors Legacy, The Messenger, Overload, others [W] Paypal, Steam Wallet, TF2 Keys, Wishlist

SGS Flair 7SteamTrades profileIGS Rep 6
150+ confirmed trades on reddit, 250+ on Steamtrades
Wishlist
All NA/ROW games (unless otherwise noted)
NO LONGER PROVIDING GIFT LINKS
Paypal only (EU: use F&F), fees through Goods/Item and Service transfer (if you're outside EU).
If a game doesn't have a price next to it, means I'm not looking to sell but open to offers/trade.

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2020.10.22 19:56 TheeWholeShebang 23 [M4F] Whatever you need

Lending a helping hand to those looking for someone to just basically share/spend/waste their time with. The title says it all, from strictly SFW to extremely NSFW, I’m down. Whatever topic that may be, simpleng kumustahan lang, talking about interests, finding common ground, mga hinanakit sa mundo, how this pandemic affected you, sex and dirty talks, kahit ano pa yan. Chat, call, date, fuck, I’m cool with anything.
Abt me: I’m 23 but as they say, age is just a number, 5’7” na mej pa-dadbod na bc of the lockdown and no sports activity during the lockdown but legs remain toned bc of biking in recent weeks/months, works midshift so I’m alive at night, has a beard but not the scary type, can sing siguro hahaha and I have this sense of responsibility for people I’m with/talking to/acquaintances with for whatever reason, like ayoko lang na may mapahamak or something. Also, I’m from QC but I could go far, maybe. Don’t worry, I don’t bite... unless you want me to 🤷‍♂️
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2020.10.22 16:59 Maguilar007 Terrible luck in the bowl so far M35 Detroit metro

Hi Everyone,
I'm a very normal, I would say better than average looking guy, not a multimillionaire but decent 300k/year income, tall, average body, not super fit but not even close to overweight either, I have pretty normal Instagram style of pictures in my profile. I'm looking for a SGF or SFWB kind of arrangement, meeting 2 or 3 times a month, having actual dates, shopping, weekend trips etc.
That being said, I have terrible luck at SA, tons of scams, content sellers and escorts (you know the type when they say baby, hun,etc and a phone number right away), and the few apparently real people are super flakey and most of them stop replying once I want to plan the M&G, so far only had 1 unsuccessful M&G, no chemistry and we parted ways.
Had a couple really good experiences a couple years ago but the market in SA seems completely different these days.. any recommendations? are there any more popular sites these days I should try??
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2020.10.22 16:46 addendum123 i wrote this letter in 2018. i just wanna share. and to this girl who helped me back then to recover from this misery life thank you. kahit hindi ko kaya sabihin sayo. 😂

march 28, 2018 bakit ba hindi ko makuha yung pangarap ko sa buhay. isa dalawa tatlo. oo nakuha ko yung iba na alam kong kaya ko. tatlo apat lima sa mga yun yung mga pinag sinumikapan ko. marahil mali lang ako ng diskarte sa buhay. marahil wala lang akong masabihan kung ano talaga yung nararamdaman ko. namimiss ko yung tao na nasasabihan ko ng problema. kasalanan ko din naman siguro to. ang hirap mag paka tao. maging adult. gusto ko na sumuko sa buhay. pero wala akong magawa. wala akong masabihan. kahit yung mga bagay na ayoko gawin hanggang ngayon napipilitan pa din ako. lord sabihin nyo naman sakin kung pano. iparamdam nyo po. 4 years na ba? simula ng hindi ko kayo maramdaman. ang sakit sakit na kasi. hirap na hirap na po ako. kung pwede lang na mawala nalang ako ng walang iiyak. walang mag aalala. gusto ko na sumuko sa buhay. pagod na ako.
June 22, 2018. hindi ko pa din alam kung anong gusto kong gawin. alam kong walang madaling paraan para makuha yung mga gusto ko. alam ko hindi lang sa mga materyal na bagay ako sasaya. meron pang iba siguro. natatakot ako na sampalin ng katotohanan na dahan dahan kong nakikita ang mga pag kakamali ko. tulungan nyo ako hindi ko na kaya. hirap na hirap na ako. marahil sa kung sakaling uuwi ako sana mahanap ko ang sarili ko. sana maibalik ko yung dating ako na walang inaalala. gusto ko na mag mature maging independent. nahihirapan na ako ng sobra.
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2020.10.22 16:17 productism Daily Roundup Thu, October 22nd, 2020

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Pulse 2.0 TSLA Stock: $500 Price Target By Wedbush Wedbush analyst Dan Ives recently issued a price target increase of $475 to $500 for Tesla Inc (NASDAQ: TSLA). These are the details. After the ...
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2020.10.22 13:20 renscy [HELP] Making use of an old educational plan?

I apologize if incorrect yung flair.
TL;DR
I want to salvage my father's old educational plan for me. Complete nya yung payment needed, but the company (Pacific Plans, Inc.) went missing nung hinanap namin sya yung 2015. Ngayong 2020 before start ng pandemic we reached out and finally they responded thru email. They presented us options and we don't know how to proceed. Our goal ideally is to get back what we paid in full, preferably through cash. We do not have any immediate need for the money, though. But of course we still want to maximize this, if possible.
Background:
May educational plan yung tatay ko na ini-start nya nung 2000's. Malaki investment nya dun at the time and nakumpleto daw nya yung payments and supposedly yun sana college funds ko. Pero namatay yung agent na contact nya, among other things (nawala yung company daw), so di na nya nafollow-up yung benefits na sana makukuha namin. We tried to reach them by email back in 2015 pero ded daw email nila and di na-receive inquiries namin. Ngayong pandemic lang uli namin sya naalala and na-follow up matapos makita uli yung papeles lol. He essentially treated it as "yun nalang tapon nalang" pero I want to salvage whatever we can.
Goal:
Makuha sana yung worth ng investments namin or something similar, bale, kung 100k ang total payment namin, around 100k man lang sana makuha namin uli. Or ideally, something higher. Preferably one-time transfer. Baka daw kasi mamatay yung company or something and gusto nalang nya ilipat sa ibang account.
Options:
Admittedly we don't have any idea of the jargon they used sa email nila lol. Anyway here are some excerpts sa email na baka relevant sa issue namin:
your pro-rata cash entitlement is your pro-rata share from the liquidated Trust Fund Assets mentioned above determined using the ratio of your plans’ pre-need reserve to the total pre-need reserves for all plans, value dated as of end year 2013
your benefit entitlement will also be computed using your plans’ pre-need reserve to the total pre-need reserves for all plans, value dated as of end year 2013, as weights. However, instead of getting your check for the amount, you will be asked to endorse your entitlement, accomplish and sign a Registration Form as a Participating Planholder. Each UNIT of participation will have a value of P1.00 at inception (par).
As a Participating Plan holder, you will:
  1. Receive annual interest payments;
  2. Be entitled to have the value of your participation redeemed, in whole or in part, beginning the 6th year from issuance of the Units and thereafter at interest payment anniversaries;
  3. Have the option to sell your Units in the event there is an offer to buy these at anytime;
  4. Be covered, at no additional expense on your part, by Yearly Renewable Term Insurance (GYRT) and Accidental Death and Dismemberment (ADD), the value of which is a multiple of the par value of your outstanding Units;
A Participating Planholder is not guaranteed any returns or yield as the performance of the IMA will depend on several factors, including market value of the securities.
We asked for an estimate of our entitlement and it's only worth <25% of what my father paid back then, along with shares in a company (GPH). If we took the first option, we'll receive a check and a voucher:
to RCBC Trust and/or its nominated stock brokerage company to execute the transfer and uplift your total shares entitlement and thereafter, provide you by mail at the mailing address you indicate in the GPH Voucher, the corresponding GPH share certificate for your disposition.
Now what?
Eto, I'm not sure kung ano gagawin. I'm banking on just taking the entitlements outright and take the sad amount of cash and shares but I don't know how to even utilize those shares, or whatever they mean. I can't see any reason to continue as a participating plan holder, as my father had no intention to maintain or manage it anymore. Maybe we can still utilize the shares?
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